{"id":762,"date":"2017-06-20T16:50:31","date_gmt":"2017-06-20T14:50:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.dejmezenamsanci.cz\/?p=762"},"modified":"2017-06-27T17:11:13","modified_gmt":"2017-06-27T15:11:13","slug":"norsko-nasili-gender-a-silne-zeny","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.dejmezenamsanci.cz\/en\/norsko-nasili-gender-a-silne-zeny\/","title":{"rendered":"Norsko, n\u00e1sil\u00ed, gender a siln\u00e9 \u017eeny"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"qtranxs-available-languages-message qtranxs-available-languages-message-en\">Sorry, this entry is only available in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.dejmezenamsanci.cz\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/762\" class=\"qtranxs-available-language-link qtranxs-available-language-link-cs\" title=\"CZ\">CZ<\/a>.<\/p><p><em>Mnoho dat, z nich\u017e m\u016f\u017eu \u010derpat. Nov\u00e9 pohledy na v\u011bc. Nov\u00e1 t\u00e9mata, kter\u00e1 m\u011b dosud v souvislosti s problematikou dom\u00e1c\u00ed n\u00e1sil\u00ed nenapadla. Kontakty na zaj\u00edmav\u00e9 a fundovan\u00e9 lidi, nejen z Norska, ale i z \u010ceska. A nov\u00fd z\u00e1pal, kter\u00fd se ve mn\u011b probudil. V\u0161ichni to ze sv\u00e9ho okol\u00ed zn\u00e1me. V\u011bt\u0161inu z n\u00e1s to nenech\u00e1v\u00e1 lhostejn\u00fdm. Ale vnit\u0159n\u00ed u\u017e\u00edr\u00e1n\u00ed se ni\u010demu nepom\u016f\u017ee. Mus\u00edme jednat. V\u0161ichni. Je to toti\u017e probl\u00e9m n\u00e1s v\u0161ech. To jsou v kostce hlavn\u00ed p\u0159\u00ednosy, kter\u00e9 pro m\u011b cesta do Norska znamen\u00e1.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Den prvn\u00ed, pracovn\u00ed:<\/p>\n<p>S\u00eddlo ombudsmanky pro rovnost a proti diskriminaci. Nejsiln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed dojem \u2013 v\u0161echny \u017eeny, kter\u00e9 n\u00e1m ten den referovaly, byly o\u010dividn\u011b neskute\u010dn\u011b zaujat\u00e9 t\u00e9matem sv\u00e9 pr\u00e1ce. I ty, kter\u00e9 dom\u00e1c\u00ed n\u00e1sil\u00ed \u0159e\u0161\u00ed z hlediska st\u00e1tn\u00ed spr\u00e1vy. Vn\u00edmaj\u00ed to jako v\u00fdznamn\u00fd celospole\u010densk\u00fd probl\u00e9m, cht\u011bj\u00ed, aby Norov\u00e9 a Norky je\u0161t\u011b v\u00edce ch\u00e1pali, jak moc v\u00e1\u017en\u00e9 a jak hr\u016fzn\u00e9 n\u00e1sledky n\u00e1sil\u00ed mezi bl\u00edzk\u00fdmi nese. Jako hlavn\u00ed z\u00e1jem norsk\u00e9ho st\u00e1tu, reprezentovan\u00e9ho na f\u00f3ru \u017eenami z r\u016fzn\u00fdch organizac\u00ed, vid\u00edm snahu, aby ob\u011bti m\u011bly n\u00e1sledn\u011b co mo\u017en\u00e1 nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed komfort. Aby m\u011bly k dispozici jedno m\u00edsto, kam p\u0159ijdou, a ostatn\u00ed slu\u017eby (policie, l\u00e9ka\u0159i, soci\u00e1ln\u00ed pracovn\u00edci, terapeuti) doraz\u00ed za nimi. Mo\u017en\u00e1 inspirace pro \u010cesko? Kdy\u017e pominu ono nasazen\u00ed i lid\u00ed ze st\u00e1tn\u00edho apar\u00e1tu, tak t\u0159eba v praktick\u00e9 rovin\u011b m\u011b zaujal mobil violence alarm, nebo-li p\u0159\u00edstroj, kter\u00fd ob\u011b\u0165 dostane od policie a kter\u00fd m\u016f\u017ee jednoduchou aktivac\u00ed informovat bezpe\u010dnostn\u00ed slo\u017eky, \u017ee se c\u00edt\u00ed v ohro\u017een\u00ed. Co\u017e, vzhledem k tomu, \u017ee n\u00e1siln\u00edk je o tom, \u017ee jeho ob\u011b\u0165 alarm m\u00e1, informov\u00e1n p\u0159edem, p\u016fsob\u00ed i preventivn\u011b.<\/p>\n<p>Den druh\u00fd:<\/p>\n<p>Rodinn\u00e9 centrum v Oslu, podobn\u00fdch je po cel\u00e9m Norsku 50. Podle z\u00e1stupkyn\u011b toho oslosk\u00e9ho pat\u0159\u00ed mezi nej\u010dast\u011bj\u0161\u00ed d\u016fvody, pro\u010d klienti centrum vyhledaj\u00ed, siln\u00e9 h\u00e1dky v rodin\u011b, kter\u00e9 leckdy vedou a\u017e k n\u00e1sil\u00ed, p\u0159\u00edmo dom\u00e1c\u00ed n\u00e1sil\u00ed pak v t\u00e9to organizaci \u0159e\u0161\u00ed asi ve 20 % p\u0159\u00edpad\u016f. Hlavn\u00edm t\u00e9matem tohoto setk\u00e1n\u00ed nebylo dom\u00e1c\u00ed n\u00e1sil\u00ed, ale porozvodov\u00e1 p\u00e9\u010de. T\u0159eba fakt, \u017ee p\u0159ibli\u017en\u011b polovina rozveden\u00fdch p\u00e1r\u016f nezvl\u00e1d\u00e1 vz\u00e1jemnou domluvu. Aktu\u00e1ln\u00edm, aspo\u0148 z m\u00e9ho pohledu, byla i norsk\u00e1 dlouholet\u00e1 zku\u0161enost se st\u0159\u00eddavou p\u00e9\u010d\u00ed, kter\u00e1 se v t\u00e9to skandin\u00e1vsk\u00e9 zemi t\u00fdk\u00e1 cca 25 % d\u011bt\u00ed z rozveden\u00fdch rodin. Podle expertky je velk\u00e1 \u010d\u00e1st z nich velmi unaven\u00e1, nestabiln\u00ed, m\u00e1 probl\u00e9my s navazov\u00e1n\u00edm p\u0159\u00e1telstv\u00ed. Dal\u0161\u00edm aktu\u00e1ln\u00edm bodem pak byla pr\u00e1ce s rodinami etnick\u00fdch minorit (hlavn\u011b Som\u00e1lci, P\u00e1kist\u00e1nci a Pol\u00e1ci), kter\u00e1 tvo\u0159\u00ed asi 30% n\u00e1pln\u011b pr\u00e1ce rodinn\u00fdch center. Tyto rodiny maj\u00ed \u010dasto ze st\u00e1tn\u00edho apar\u00e1tu strach a paradoxn\u011b pr\u00e1v\u011b kv\u016fli tomu n\u011bkdy o d\u011bti p\u0159ich\u00e1zej\u00ed. Maj\u00ed strach d\u00edt\u011b korigovat, aby nev\u011bdomky neporu\u0161ily m\u00edstn\u00ed z\u00e1kony, co\u017e \u010dasto vede k tomu, \u017ee d\u011bti jsou nezvladateln\u00e9, \u0161kola na to upozorn\u00ed a \u00fa\u0159ady situaci vyhodnot\u00ed jako nebezpe\u010dnou pro d\u00edt\u011b.<\/p>\n<p>Jednotka pro ob\u011bti zn\u00e1siln\u011bn\u00ed a n\u00e1sil\u00ed v bl\u00edzk\u00fdch vztaz\u00edch. L\u00e9ka\u0159ky a specializovan\u00e9 sestry centra, kter\u00e9 v Oslu funguje u\u017e t\u0159i roky. Pracuje p\u0159esn\u011b v onom ide\u00e1ln\u00edm nastaven\u00ed, kdy ob\u011b\u0165, kter\u00e1 zde vyhled\u00e1 pomoc, u\u017e nikam jinam nemus\u00ed. Zde ji experti vy\u0161et\u0159\u00ed, vyslechnou, d\u016fkazov\u00e9 stopy archivuj\u00ed, aby m\u011bla t\u00fdran\u00e1 \u017eena (p\u0159\u00edpadn\u011b mu\u017e) \u010das a klid na to, si rozmyslet, zda a jak probl\u00e9m chce \u0159e\u0161it. Jednotka j\u00ed nab\u00eddne i n\u00e1slednou psychologickou, soci\u00e1ln\u00ed a terapeutickou pomoc.<\/p>\n<p>Odpoledne pak \u201ehv\u011bzda\u201c programu, nesmlouvav\u00e1, r\u00e1zn\u00e1, serv\u00edtky si neberouc\u00ed a po 37 letech pr\u00e1ce v oboru na\u0161tvan\u00e1 Tove Smaadahl. P\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy z praxe, hr\u016fzostra\u0161n\u00e9 tak, \u017ee \u010dlov\u011bk ch\u00e1pe, kde berou inspiraci kultovn\u00ed auto\u0159i seversk\u00e9 krimi. Tak jako mn\u011b laikovi p\u0159i\u0161el norsk\u00fd p\u0159\u00edstup k dom\u00e1c\u00edmu n\u00e1sil\u00ed propracovan\u00fd, funk\u010dn\u00ed a s potencion\u00e1lem se st\u00e1le vyv\u00edjet d\u00e1le, tak m\u00edstn\u00ed expertka Tove byla pln\u00e1 toho, \u017ee Norsko reprezentovan\u00e9 r\u016fzn\u00fdmi institucemi toho st\u00e1le zjevn\u011b ned\u011bl\u00e1 dost. Mysl\u00edm, \u017ee jsem nebyla jedin\u00e1, koho napadlo, \u017ee bych n\u00e1siln\u00edk\u016fm p\u0159\u00e1la potkat jednou Tove osobn\u011b a vyslechnout si od n\u00ed jej\u00ed postoj.<\/p>\n<p>Den t\u0159et\u00ed:<\/p>\n<p>ATV \u2013 Alternativ To Violence. S\u00ed\u0165 center, kter\u00e1 pracuj\u00ed s n\u00e1siln\u00edky. B\u00e1je\u010dn\u00e1 Barbora Jakobsen, \u010ce\u0161ka \u017eij\u00edc\u00ed v Norsku a pracuj\u00edc\u00ed pro ATV, n\u00e1s z\u00e1sobila mnoha daty. Ostatn\u011b data, kter\u00e1 vyplynula z mnoha r\u016fzn\u00fdch studi\u00ed, byla velmi p\u0159\u00edtomn\u00e1 ka\u017ed\u00fd den pobytu a p\u0159inesla, alespo\u0148 pro m\u011b, n\u00e1m\u011bty na mnoh\u00e1 t\u00e9mata. Plat\u00ed toti\u017e, m\u00e1\u0161-li v r\u016fzn\u00e9 tvrd\u00e1 data, ne jenom emoce, mnohem l\u00e9pe se problematika vysv\u011btluje nejen ve\u0159ejnosti, ale i odborn\u00edk\u016fm, zvl\u00e1\u0161\u0165 t\u011bm st\u00e1tn\u00edm. Z Barbo\u0159ina \u010desko-norsk\u00e9ho pohledu m\u011b velmi oslovilo to, \u017ee pro Nory je dom\u00e1c\u00ed n\u00e1sil\u00ed opravdu probl\u00e9m spole\u010densk\u00fd, nikoliv osobn\u00ed, t\u00e9 dan\u00e9 rodiny. Mnoho norsk\u00fdch politik\u016f a politi\u010dek se vyprofilovalo pr\u00e1v\u011b tak, \u017ee n\u00e1sil\u00ed v bl\u00edzk\u00fdch vztaz\u00edch p\u0159ijalo za sv\u00e9 t\u00e9ma. Stejn\u011b jako m\u00e9dia, kter\u00e1 pomohla tomu, aby se Norov\u00e9 posunuli ve vn\u00edm\u00e1n\u00ed dom\u00e1c\u00edho n\u00e1sil\u00ed a aby byli v t\u00e9to oblasti dostate\u010dn\u011b vzd\u011blan\u00ed, v\u011bd\u011bli t\u0159eba, kam se mohou nejenom jako ob\u011bti, ale i sv\u011bdci obr\u00e1tit. Z mnoha zm\u00edn\u011bn\u00fdch studi\u00ed mi p\u0159i\u0161la velice zaj\u00edmav\u00e1 ta, kter\u00e1 se zam\u011b\u0159uje na ekonomick\u00e9 dopady n\u00e1sil\u00ed mezi bl\u00edzk\u00fdmi. Jestli\u017ee Norov\u00e9 odhaduj\u00ed, \u017ee v jejich zemi m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt tento dopad vy\u010d\u00edslen \u010d\u00e1stkou minim\u00e1ln\u011b 18 miliard za rok, tak jak\u00fd by byl asi u n\u00e1s? Ocenila jsem i informaci, \u017ee \u010desk\u00e1 organizace proFem bude m\u00edt v p\u0159\u00ed\u0161t\u00edm roce vlastn\u00ed studii na obdobn\u00e9 t\u00e9ma. N\u00e1sledn\u011b Barbora informovala o tom, jak ATV vznikalo. Mottem u\u017e tehdy, v roce 1987, bylo \u201eZa n\u00e1sil\u00ed m\u00e1 v\u017edy odpov\u011bdnost n\u00e1siln\u00edk\u201c. Po Barbo\u0159e p\u0159edstoupili jej\u00ed dva oslo\u0161t\u00ed kolegov\u00e9, Emil a Kristina, terapeut\u00e9 ATV, kte\u0159\u00ed n\u00e1m na dvou konkr\u00e9tn\u00edch p\u0159\u00edpadech vysv\u011btlili, jak vlastn\u011b pr\u00e1ce s n\u00e1siln\u00edkem a jeho bl\u00edzk\u00fdmi vypad\u00e1, jak \u010dasto sv\u00fdm n\u00e1siln\u00fdm chov\u00e1n\u00edm trp\u00ed (tento \u00fahel pohledu m\u011b dosud nenapadl a up\u0159\u00edmn\u011b je pro m\u011b celkem t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 ho p\u0159ijmout).<\/p>\n<p>Monika Binarov\u00e1<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sorry, this entry is only available in CZ.Mnoho dat, z nich\u017e m\u016f\u017eu \u010derpat. Nov\u00e9 pohledy na v\u011bc. Nov\u00e1 t\u00e9mata, kter\u00e1 m\u011b dosud v souvislosti s problematikou dom\u00e1c\u00ed n\u00e1sil\u00ed nenapadla. Kontakty na zaj\u00edmav\u00e9 a fundovan\u00e9 lidi, nejen z Norska, ale i z \u010ceska. A nov\u00fd z\u00e1pal, kter\u00fd se ve mn\u011b probudil. V\u0161ichni to ze sv\u00e9ho okol\u00ed [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":1268,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-762","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-nezarazene"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dejmezenamsanci.cz\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/762","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dejmezenamsanci.cz\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dejmezenamsanci.cz\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dejmezenamsanci.cz\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dejmezenamsanci.cz\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=762"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.dejmezenamsanci.cz\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/762\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":764,"href":"https:\/\/www.dejmezenamsanci.cz\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/762\/revisions\/764"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dejmezenamsanci.cz\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1268"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dejmezenamsanci.cz\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=762"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dejmezenamsanci.cz\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=762"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dejmezenamsanci.cz\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=762"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}